Dating Red FlagsYou are a smart cookie.....you can spot the unscrupulous and deceitful person. They betray themselves with inconsistency and unexplainable behavior. You should be concerned if your date does any of the following without providing an acceptable explanation:
- Frequently disappears and becomes unreachable by phone or email
- Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, and so on
- Refuses to speak to you on the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy
- Refuses to give you a home number and only calls you from work. (They could be married, have a live in lover, have a significant other and are looking for their next conquest before ending that relationship).
- Doesn't provide direct answers to direct questions
- Appears in person to be significantly different from his or her online persona
- Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members