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A Parent's Guide to Understanding Threats

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A PARENT'S GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING THREATS

In today’s world, there is no such thing as "just a joke" when it comes to threats of school violence or harm to others. Whether a threat is spoken, posted online, or sent in a text, the consequences can be serious and long-lasting.

Regardless of intent, threats can lead to legal action, school discipline, and lasting impacts on a student's future, including their eligibility for college and military service.

What Parents/Guardians Should Know:

  • Under Michigan law, a threat (even a false one) that causes fear, disrupts the school environment, or triggers an emergency response can be a criminal offense.
  • A student can face consequences at school and with law enforcement, even if the threat was made from home.
  • Jokes or offhand remarks like “I’m going to kill him” or “She’s so annoying, I hope she dies” are taken seriously and can result in serious questioning and consequences, even if they aren't technically a legal threat.
  • Sharing or reposting a threat on social media—even without knowing if it’s real—is dangerous and can lead to severe consequences.
  • If a student overhears a threat or sees something online that concerns them, they should report it immediately to a trusted adult or use their school’s reporting tool. This is not being a "snitch"; it is being responsible and showing you care.

How You Can Help as a Parent/Guardian:

  • Talk to your child about the critical difference between joking and threatening language.
  • Encourage your child to think before they post, text, or say something that could be misinterpreted.
  • Reinforce this simple, life-saving message: Don’t do it. Don’t share it. Report it.
  • Remind your child that if they hear or see a threat, they should report it to a trusted adult at their school. They can also submit a tip to OK2SAY, Michigan’s Student Safety Program.

By working together, we can help our kids understand that threats, even those they think are harmless, are a serious matter.

PARENT GUIDE: FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

This section addresses common questions about threats and school safety to help you and your child understand the risks and responsibilities.


Q: Even if a threat is a joke, can my child still face consequences?

A: Yes. Even if a comment is intended as a joke, it can still lead to serious consequences if it is perceived as a threat or causes fear among others. Students should be taught that there are no jokes about violence or school safety.


Q: Can law enforcement show up at my house or school?

A: Yes. Police officers can and will show up at your home or school to investigate a potential threat or to make an arrest.


Q: What is considered a threat under Michigan law?

A: Under Michigan law, a threat is a crime if a person threatens violence with the intent to cause fear, serious bodily injury, disrupt a school-related event, or cause an emergency response. This includes:

  • Threatening a shooting or bombing on campus.
  • Threatening a specific person.
  • Creating or sharing a false threat on social media.

Q: What about comments like, “She is so annoying, I hope she dies!” or “I’m going to kill him for telling her what I said”?

A: While these comments may not meet the legal definition of a threat, they are taken seriously. They can cause fear and lead to a police investigation and disciplinary consequences. Students should understand that these statements are inappropriate and can have serious repercussions.


Q: If a threat is taken out of context, could my child still have consequences?

A: Yes. Making jokes about violence or harm is a serious mistake. If a comment causes another person to genuinely fear for their safety, the student who made the comment can still face significant consequences.


Q: Do consequences only apply at school? What if the threat was made from home?

A: Making a threat can have consequences that affect your child’s entire life. It could show up on their permanent record and impact their eligibility for college or military service. A student can face severe consequences at school and with law enforcement, regardless of whether the threat was made at school or from home.


Q: What should my child do if they hear or see a threat?

A: Your child should immediately tell a trusted adult, such as a teacher, principal, school resource officer, parent, or coach. They can also submit a confidential tip to OK2SAY. If your child is unsure how to report, they should ask a trusted adult to show them.


Q: What if my child doesn’t want to be a “snitch” on a friend?

A: Your child should report it to a trusted adult. If their friend is doing or saying something that is frightening or concerning, reporting it is not an act of betrayal. It is an act of caring that could keep their friend, themselves, and others safe.


Q: How can tips by submitted to OK2SAY?

A: Tips can be submitted 24-hours-a-day, 7-days-a-week.

  • Telephone: 8-555-OK2SAY (855-565-2729)
  • Text: 652729 (OK2SAY)
  • Email: ok2say@mi.gov
  • Website: ok2say.com
  • Mobile app: Available in the app stores for iPhone and Android devices
  • Multimedia attachments and links to additional information are encouraged.