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What Can Keep Someone from Reporting Abuse
Recognizing abuse can be incredibly challenging, especially for those who have endured it for years or when it stems from someone they trust. When individuals grow up in environments where abuse or violence is prevalent, these behaviors can become normalized, blurring the lines of what is acceptable. It's essential to understand that abuse is never acceptable, and it is never the fault of the person being abused, regardless of how much the abuser tries to manipulate the situation or blame others.
Those experiencing abuse may hesitate to seek help because doing so feels like “telling on” someone they care about. The abuser might display kindness and affection most of the time, only to turn cruel intermittently. This unpredictability can create fear and uncertainty about the consequences of reporting the abuse—whether it's concern over the abuser’s reaction or the potential impact on family dynamics, friendships, or community ties.
It can be difficult to reach out for help but it’s important to do so! It is important to talk with a trusted adult or if one is not available, contact OK2SAY. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources available to help you navigate this difficult situation. Your safety and well-being are paramount.