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Helping a Survivor
Helping a Survivor
HELPING A SURVIVOR
Family and friends are probably the people who know the survivor best and can help them through this. As a family member or friend, you may be able to help the survivor feel safe just by being near them. You may be able to provide emotional support and help the survivor reach out for services.
The most important things you can do to help a survivor heal is to be consistent in letting them know you believe them, that the assault was not their fault, and that you will do whatever you are able to do to support them over time. It is not always easy to be a helper for survivors, but your efforts will be well worth it.
How To Help Survivors
HOW TO HELP AND EMPATHIC RESPONSES
There are a few simple tips for showing empathy and care
to a survivor. Learn helpful tings to say and how to know your limits as a
helper.
HELPING CHILD SURVIVORS
If you feel a child is reaching out to you, it’s
critical to let them know you’re "hearing" them and will do your
best to help them.
HELPING ELDERLY SURVIVORS OR THOSE WITH SPECIAL NEEDS
Helping elderly survivors or adult survivors with special
needs can be challenging. There are a few tips to keep in mind.
THINGS YOU MAY BE FEELING AS A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER
It's difficult to learn that someone you care about has
been sexually assaulted. It's very important that you take good care of
yourself too.